Yesterday, I rode in a car through a raging thunderstorm.
The clouds were so low to the road that they blocked most of the visibility.
The driver had to follow the brake lights of the vehicle in front of us for
several miles until we had passed through the stormy area.
Cruising through the foggy stretch was disorienting and
uncomfortable. It took all of the focus the driver had, just to keep our car
moving forward safely and on-route. Even so, it was a struggle to focus and stay on course.
Sometimes multiple sclerosis
feels sort of like that.
People call it “brain fog.” Similar symptoms can accompany
other medical conditions.
Folks report attention issues, focus problems, memory challenges,
and multi-tasking difficulties with chemotherapy, chronic fatigue syndrome, chronic
stress, depression, exposure to toxins, long periods of physical inactivity, lupus,
menopause, nutritional deficiencies, pregnancy, sleep deprivation, when taking
certain medications, and during the grieving process after a loved one’s death.
Anyone can zone out a bit when overtired, overburdened, or
overloaded. MS just tends to tip the scales in that direction much of the time.
Despite our earnest efforts to pay attention (especially
when we’re viewing programs and presentations or when someone is speaking to
us), we may zone out for a moment. We might miss a piece of something a person
just said, take a few extra moments to answer a question, or forget an
appointment.
Sensory overload can do that to us. So can MS fatigue, pain,
or any number of other MS-related symptoms that interrupt our daily functioning
and ability to concentrate.
MSers join the countless crowds who keep daily calendars,
to-do lists, and other reminders, just in case they zone out. We might ask
others to help us remember something important (although we cringe at the idea
of inviting nagging). We set up notes on our smart phones.
And we try like heck to stay in the zone.
Note to loved ones:
Beware of telling an MSer that he or she has brain fog or is zoning out. It’s
much safer, more tactful, and wiser to let us
tell you about it, if we feel like
sharing.
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Word cloud generated by Kicking MS to the Curb - All rights reserved
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